In Uganda, there is a troubling trend where married couples often fight violently over property during separations or divorces.
This situation has led to many tragic incidents, including murders, leaving families and communities in shock. Because of this, it is essential for married couples in Uganda to rethink the idea of owning property together.
Joint property ownership is usually seen as a sign of unity and financial smartness. However, this arrangement can lead to serious problems when relationships go bad.
In Uganda, where social and cultural pressures often emphasize material wealth over emotional connections, disputes over property rights can escalate quickly. When couples decide to part ways, the fight for property can sometimes become a matter of life and death.
Heartbreaking stories fill the news about couples who have turned against each other in violent conflicts over property. From the East to the West and from the North to the South, these incidents have become all too common. The results are devastating: children are left without parents, families are broken apart, and entire communities are left traumatized.
Given these tragedies, it is crucial for married couples in Uganda to reconsider the concept of joint property ownership. Instead, they should think about other ways to manage their property that prioritize emotional and financial security.
Mackline Akello, a renowned marriage counselor in Kampala emphasizes the importance of keeping property ownership separate. She believes that this can help prevent disputes that could lead to violence.
“I always advise people to separate property ownership. When feelings fade and someone wants to move on, it is easier if the couple does not share property jointly. Each person can start anew with what they worked for,” Akello explained
To support this idea, it can be beneficial for couples to have clear prenuptial agreements. These legal documents can outline how property should be managed, reducing the chances of conflict in the future.
A tragic example of this issue is the case of Ugandan Olympic athlete Rachel Cheptegei, who lost her life in September 2024 after a violent confrontation with her ex-boyfriend over land ownership. Her father, Joseph Cheptegei, spoke to the media about the fight over property that took place after the death of a family member. He suggested that if Rachel and her boyfriend had signed a prenuptial agreement, she might still be alive today.
“They were just friends, and I wonder why he wanted to take away things belonging to my daughter,” he said.
Christine Ankunda, a lawyer in Kampala, also supports the idea of joint ownership with specific conditions. She noted that many couples do not think about what could happen if they separate while they are still in love.
“If couples agree on conditions for dividing property in case of separation, it can make the process smoother. This clarity can help avoid violent conflicts, keeping children safe and communities intact,” Ankunda stated.
While joint property ownership might appear to be a practical choice, the risks involved cannot be overlooked. Ugandan couples should prioritize their safety and well-being by considering alternative arrangements that protect them from the harsh realities of property disputes.
